The other day I took all 3 kids out shopping for Nate's birthday gift. The babies were in their stroller, and Isaac was walking next to me. He was starting to wander away a little bit, so I gave him a big warning. . . and I'm thinking I may have done some psychological damage! I told him that he needed to stay right beside the stroller because I didn't want him to get lost or have a stranger take him. Ooh. I know what you're thinking. That's bad. . . Well, it worked that day, except the whole time we were walking around, Isaac was saying, "Where's the stranger?" and "The stranger can't take me, Mommy!" I was sort of hoping that he would forget about it, but he mentioned it again yesterday. He heard someone cough in the parking lot and said, "Oh, that's a stranger!" I've created a monster!
I have started talking to Isaac about what he should do if someone he doesn't know asks him to go with them. . . which is okay, I think. He should know about this. . . and I think he is old enough to understand it as I am presenting to him in an age-appropriate manner. I wasn't going to use it as a warning anymore, though. . .
And then today happened. . . we were all at Babies R Us shopping for a new car seat, and Isaac kept running down the aisles. I was growing so tired of it, that I told him he'd better "Come here!" Then I bent down and said, "You need to stay next to Mommy and Daddy. I don't want a stranger to take you, and I don't want you to get lost!" I can't remember exactly how I worded it, but it sounded a lot better coming out of my mouth at the time than it does as I type it and read it to myself!
But the kid didn't budge from my side again. . .
Psychological damage, I know. . . and you'd think a SuperMommy would be able to control her 3 year old better, huh?!